Who the hell on the earth said that love is a pleasure?
I have come across various nasty scenarios not exactly scenarios, but the way people tend to neglect their love when it is in need of serious attention scorched me .
Here are few real life problems of my friends/colleagues/ I don’t wanna mention their names :(
First:
There is a cute couple. They are blessed being together, they are in relationship for the past seven years. To describe them in short, the girl is elder than the guy but I hardly know about her. I just heard from the guy about his girl…that she is matured and brainy unlike me. And the guy is dynamic, gutsy, and full of attitude and of course handsome. I can definitely say that its an euphoria for any girl to have him as her dream man. Ok.Whatever …putting all these adjectives aside, I will come to their main problem. The girl is old enough to be married and she is already pressurized by her parents ..it’s quite common that parents will compel their daughters to get married as early as possible and moreover she has one younger sister too. Whereas the guy has just started his career as a writer/philosopher, so he would need an ample amount of time to get prominent. So they are in need of time and patience and more trust /
Second:
Ahh, it’s nothing special for the readers but for me.
The couple is of same age. They are best friends for some period and they committed to get marry on one fine day and they are in relationship from past 5 years probably. The love story is routine but the characters are not! The girl is a non sense, stupid, crazy, adamant yet very very sweet. She is a specimen and she must be kept in museum :P Where as the guy is simple, fun loving and hard working. The way the guy loves the girl here is extremely beautiful and highly impeccable. He is an awesome creature who never restricts her/ and expects her to be the same as she is ; They both have a good understanding and trust ..I think this is what utterly matters in the love life however great/crap their characters are! And in this country, every love has a problem and it’s the same problem as above with few more psentiments. the guy needs 2-3 more years to settle get job as he is pursuing his degree and girl’s parents have already started planning about her marriage. The girl is in a dreadful situation where she cannot ask the guy to sacrifice his wishes for her and also she cannot trouble her parents by going against em and so she is trying hard to balance em both.
see..here also, however precious their love is or however greatly they love each other, four years of love cannot stand on its own, it still needs some help…yes, it again depends on time and patience.
Third:
Their happened a love in between a careless guy and homely girl. They both are pursuing their degrees and so they are waiting to get a job first and then to marry in next two years.
Bottomline / Moral:
TO LOVE IS TO WAIT! :(
4 comments:
Maddy...so is dis d reason..y serenity is goin on 4m ur side...!!!!..anywayz..i could make out the characters..except the third one...well said To Love is To Wait..i appreciate all those who r struggling to make their Love alive n waiting 4 settlement...Wish that one day they hear d good news. True Love Never Dies..:)
Pressi: it's all incidental :P not meant anybody in particular and yeah what u said is right :))
Hmm..You say "Who said love is a pleasure" and then by speaking about the examples of wait in love, you imply that waiting is not pleasure.
Sorry for daring to disagree here but waiting in love is a pleasure eventhough it might be hard. Moreover, don't you think hardships bring the best out of people?
I've seen innumerable examples of love stories in my friends and acquaintances who are very bright, intelligent and good people who had to wait for their parents approval. I agree in the process they might have went through all the trauma narrated in Chetan Bhagat's "Two States" but the end result says that they are more deeper in love.
Another simple analogy is, "You won't feel that you are on the top pf the world when you solve a simple math problem but you would feel it when you finish a difficult problem which you thought unsolvable at the first look".
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