say NO proudly....

Saying No is perhaps the most backbreaking thing to do for most of the people.., but it is an art. Though it sounds haughty., the greatness lie beneath :) !!!Many guys used to funk the treats where they will have to say no, feel sneaky and they have to prepare for such situations.But as and when I get into such situation, I say No without any hesitation and I in fact enjoy that plight.I may seem arrogant for some yet I believe it and I cannot say catlike YES.

Lets suppose if I know that I am unable to do it and I still agree to him/her..,first I feel nasty, curse myself for accepting,so I do a bad job, I hate him/her for throwing me on that..n lot more!!Isn't it right??
So, what's wrong in saying NO honestly and heart fully??and
I guess I am indirectly helping them by my NO as I am giving them a chance to go for some better one and yeah..,avoiding blackball feelings about the person.
and one more suggestion : if you like the person and if you don’t want to burn your bridges then having to say No can actually be a good thing to nurture your relationship with them rather than hurting the relation by doing a half-baked job!!

saying No is just pure joy!!! The joy gets maximised if you really do not fetch reasons at all!!

"Never explain yourself to any one because.., the person who likes you does not need that.., And the person who dislikes you will not believe it !!!"

Cheers!!

A Trip to Mumbai

Finally, last weekend, I visited a gigantic city Mumbai all alone. Thanks to Tarun and Bagga for their love on me. Though they had some other plans, they helped me in boarding the bus. Forget about the journey, at the very first site I was extremely excited by seeing all the skyscrapers, edifices and it was like I was in some foreign country.The last night's pre-viva session had a great impact on me as I got down at exact stop and I could see my friend who is awaited to meet me and indeed whom I was awaited to meet. So, she took me to a place (their Palace :P) which was built on 1800's I suppose. We spent the whole night in roaming to all the malls like Palm Beach, Center One...in Vaashi. We had our supper at MC.Donald's (all time favourite :)) and we went back to the palace at around 11.30 PM. It was the greatest fete after the wonderful bitsian life and the day ended in a blissful way that all of us had a brainstorming session about my friend's boyfriend :P (wish her she is committed with a bitsian recently :), poor chap :P ). We planned to go to Elephanta Caves if we could wake up in the early morning the next day :P.

We slept at 2 or 3 in the night after a long chit-chatting, jabbering...!!., obviously, we got up late which lead our plan altered. My friend Asha treated us (me and Himaja) at Spices Restaurant and when I was about to leave to Pune, we just went inside a mall. The sad part of that was I lost my wallet with 900 bucks + 1 ATM card + 1 Malaysian Ringett ( I got it frm Lokesh ) + 1 sim card + my mobile's Mobile's warranty card + a few important visiting cards and a few passport sized photos of my sis, mine and my loved ones as well:( :(.

The day ended in

1. calling to customer care of ICICI to block my ATM,
2. recharging my mobile,
3. disturbing all my buddies (colleagues ) in asking and jotting for my account details,
4. roaming back to the same restaurant to check whether my wallet was there or not,
5. borrowing a little amount from my friend to go back, and
6. boarding into Pune bus in front of that stupid mall where I have lost my senti wallet :(

Anyways, the trip was lively, thrilling and of course disappointing :) :) :) :( :P !!

Cheers!!