Oct 18, 2011

To love is to wait...

Who the hell on the earth said that love is a pleasure?

I have come across various nasty scenarios not exactly scenarios, but the way people tend to neglect their love when it is in need of serious attention scorched me .

Here are few real life problems of my friends/colleagues/ I don’t wanna mention their names :(

First:

There is a cute couple. They are blessed being together, they are in relationship for the past seven years. To describe them in short, the girl is elder than the guy but I hardly know about her. I just heard from the guy about his girl…that she is matured and brainy unlike me. And the guy is dynamic, gutsy, and full of attitude and of course handsome. I can definitely say that its an euphoria for any girl to have him as her dream man. Ok.Whatever …putting all these adjectives aside, I will come to their main problem. The girl is old enough to be married and she is already pressurized by her parents ..it’s quite common that parents will compel their daughters to get married as early as possible and moreover she has one younger sister too. Whereas the guy has just started his career as a writer/philosopher, so he would need an ample amount of time to get prominent. So they are in need of time and patience and more trust /

Second:

Ahh, it’s nothing special for the readers but for me.

The couple is of same age. They are best friends for some period and they committed to get marry on one fine day and they are in relationship from past 5 years probably. The love story is routine but the characters are not! The girl is a non sense, stupid, crazy, adamant yet very very sweet. She is a specimen and she must be kept in museum :P Where as the guy is simple, fun loving and hard working. The way the guy loves the girl here is extremely beautiful and highly impeccable. He is an awesome creature who never restricts her/ and expects her to be the same as she is ; They both have a good understanding and trust ..I think this is what utterly matters in the love life however great/crap their characters are! And in this country, every love has a problem and it’s the same problem as above with few more psentiments. the guy needs 2-3 more years to settle get job as he is pursuing his degree and girl’s parents have already started planning about her marriage. The girl is in a dreadful situation where she cannot ask the guy to sacrifice his wishes for her and also she cannot trouble her parents by going against em and so she is trying hard to balance em both.

see..here also, however precious their love is or however greatly they love each other, four years of love cannot stand on its own, it still needs some help…yes, it again depends on time and patience.


Third:

Their happened a love in between a careless guy and homely girl. They both are pursuing their degrees and so they are waiting to get a job first and then to marry in next two years.

Bottomline / Moral:

TO LOVE IS TO WAIT! :(